We’re told that the hardest part of love is finding The One, but falling in love is just the doorway to much bigger questions…
How do I let this person into my life without losing myself?
What if there’s not just The One, but many ones?
How do we prioritize each other when life is so damn busy?
How do we keep the flame alive for the long haul?
How do we talk about the hard stuff?
Know that whether you’re navigating how to be with one person for the long haul, or how to ethically connect with many lovers or partners at once, ALL relationship designs have advantages and challenges.
Whether you’re love-drunk and wanting to start your new relationship off on a solid foundation or wanting to bring deeper connection and intimacy to an established relationship, I can teach you the skills for joyful, juicy, resilient relating that you never learned growing up.
Couple’s packages combine individual coaching with couple’s sessions for a balance of intrapersonal and interpersonal growth. We’ll identify your personal and relationship goals and create a path forward to deeper love and intimacy.
You will learn how to:
Overcome inhibition and learn to talk about sex in safe and exciting ways
Build or rebuild trust and safety
Navigate disappointments, boundaries, and consent
Address the small things in your relationship before they become big things (and discover how this can bring big insight and healing into your relationship)
Own your triggers and make your relationship a vehicle for your self-awareness and personal growth
Distinguish the difference between ritual and routine, and make your relationship a sacred practice
After working together, you and your partner(s) will be masters at…
Identifying and communicating your feelings, needs, and desires.
Deep listening.
Understanding your personal history and wounds, and bringing each other into your inner worlds.
Designing your relationship structure with the freedoms and boundaries that work best for your partnership.
Bringing back playfulness and spontaneity.
Creating deeper connection, honesty, and trust than ever before.
This package is perfect for partners who DON’T want to:
Continue negative patterns from their past relationships or parents in their current relationships.
Drift away from each other and just become roommates as the passion and intimacy fade.
Let hurt feelings and disagreements accumulate into mountains of resentment.
Give up on their personal needs, hopes, or dreams to make the relationship work.
This package is perfect for couples who DO want to:
Create deeper connection, honesty, and trust than ever before.
Resolve arguments more quickly and productively.
Listen better.
Bring more intention, presence, and quality time into their relationship.
Feel more comfortable talking about sex and creating a sex life that’s mutually exciting and fulfilling.
Add more options to their sexual menu with each other, or explore opening up their relationship in ways that allow both partners to feel safe and heard.